Why More Moms Are Choosing Homeschooling in 2025 (Pros & Cons to Consider)
Lately, I’ve been hearing the same question from so many fellow moms: “Should I homeschool my kids?” If you’d asked me five years ago, I might’ve said homeschooling was a niche choice. But here we are in 2025, and it’s becoming more mainstream every day. In fact, there are now an estimated 4 to 5 million kids learning at home in the U.S. (Ray, 2023)! I decided this was an important topic to research and talk about because I’m currently in the position where I’m going to need to make a decision relatively soon.
If you’re considering this path, you’re not alone. I wanted to share some of the biggest reasons families are choosing to homeschool—and some honest pros and cons I think every mom should weigh before jumping in.
Why More Parents Are Choosing Homeschooling Right Now
1. They’re Worried About Safety
Let’s be real—every time there’s another story about school violence or bullying, it hits me hard. I’m not the only one. A recent Pew Research study found that 63% of parents are seriously worried about their kids’ safety at school (Pew Research Center, 2023). Homeschooling has given a lot of us peace of mind, knowing our children are learning in a safe, supportive space.
2. They Want an Education That Fits Our Kids
Every child is unique, right? Some kids thrive in structured classrooms, but others struggle. Homeschooling lets us tailor lessons to fit our children’s pace and passions. And it works—research shows homeschooled kids often score 15 to 30 points higher on standardized tests (Ray, 2023). I’ve seen my own child blossom when we leaned into their love of science and let them go deeper at their own speed.
3. They’re Frustrated with What (and How) Schools Are Teaching
Whether it’s debates over history lessons, book bans, or health education, a lot of us feel stuck between extremes. More and more parents are choosing homeschooling simply to have more say in their child’s learning (Kamenetz, 2023). For my family, this meant weaving in more diverse voices and real-world skills I didn’t see in the school curriculum.
4. Technology Makes It So Much Easier Now
Let’s thank the internet! Homeschooling today isn’t about mom trying to teach algebra at the kitchen table (unless you want it to be). With platforms like Khan Academy and Outschool, and even AI tutors, we can offer our kids amazing lessons—even in subjects we’re not confident in (EdTech Magazine, 2024). It’s a game changer.
5. They Crave Flexibility
After the pandemic, so many of us shifted to working remotely, and it opened our eyes to new possibilities. Homeschooling lets families travel, explore, and create schedules that actually work for them (Forbes, 2024). One family I know spends winters in Florida and summers up north—all while their kids stay on track with schoolwork.
The Real Pros & Cons of Homeschooling
Here’s the heart-to-heart part. Homeschooling can be incredible, but it’s not all sunshine and Pinterest-worthy lesson plans.
Pros
Custom learning: Your child can go faster, slower, or dive deep into their interests.
More family time: I’ve felt our family bond grow stronger.
Flexible days: Take a vacation in September when everyone else is back in school!
Safer space: Less worry about bullying or school violence.
Academic wins: Studies show homeschooled kids often do very well (Ray, 2023).
Cons
It’s a big time commitment: It usually means one parent (often mom) is leading the charge.
Socializing takes effort: You have to seek out co-ops, sports, and clubs.
Costs can add up: Between curriculum, field trips, and supplies, it’s not always cheap.
Fewer school extras: No built-in sports teams or drama club—though you can often find alternatives.
Legal stuff: Each state has its own rules, and keeping up with them can be a job in itself (HSLDA, 2025).
References (For My Fellow Research Moms!)
EdTech Magazine. (2024). The Rise of EdTech Tools in Homeschooling.
Forbes. (2024). Remote Work and Homeschooling: The Perfect Pair for Nomadic Families.
HSLDA. (2025). State Homeschooling Laws and Requirements.
Kamenetz, A. (2023). Why Parents Are Leaving Public Schools. NPR.
Pew Research Center. (2023). Parents’ Concerns About School Safety in America.
Ray, B. (2023). Research Facts on Homeschooling. National Home Education Research Institute.
At the end of the day, choosing to homeschool is deeply personal. It’s not perfect, and it’s not for everyone—but for many families in 2025, it’s the best path forward. If you’re considering it, I encourage you to connect with other moms who’ve been there. (And yes, I’m always happy to chat about it, too!)
